Friends...

As I have kept an increasingly public profile, I have also become conscious about the need to segregate private, from the public.

Here are some ground rules that I follow:

  1. For work, we manage communities on Facebook, and then there are some that I manage personally. My own page, however, is shifting towards family and friends. I like to share pictures and moments from life. Increasingly if I don't 'really know' a person from my own offline, or even online engagements...or through my family or close friends, I am not accepting a friend request. Don't mean to offend, or reject, anyone but just trying to keep my private space, private.
  2. LinkedIn.com/rajeshlalwani Of course is purely professional, but, I am not accepting random requests from people, not known from earlier, who don't specify why they'd like to add me to their network. I am only too happy to connect, if I SIMPLY knew the context. Just adding one sentence can allow the recepient to make an educated choice.
  3. On Twitter.com/rajeshlalwani I follow everyone who I can 'have a conversation with' about the many pursuits of my life - business, recipes, music, language, movies, wellness and others. Happy to connect :)
  4. This blog has given me many friends, and continues to be my favourite place for conversations. Among the most painful memories for me continues to be the time when we lost over 200 comments (accidentally deleted still seems the possible cause, but we'd never really know). Many people whom I first met here, now form a part of my life in so many different ways.
  5. Oops, and there the direct connect that never goes unanswered (a rule that I have forever followed) - my email :) - rajesh (dot) lalwani (at) blogworks (dot) in

Do you follow any rules yourself? Keep writing.

Comments (4)

raj:

A nice post.. will learn a great deal from here...

Hey, this is my first comment on your blog. As you can see, I'm really getting into this. Like the clarity in your policy on friend requests. I'm still trying to figure that out for myself too, but then you're a vet in this arena, I'm a newbie, so I'm gonna take some guidelines from this post. Tks,

Kirti:

A pithy precise listing :-)

Marryam H Reshii:

Very clear thinking on private vs public space and also accepting/not accepting friend requests. Lately, everyone with too much time on their hands and too little work shoots requests to acquaintances and non-acquaintances on Facebook, LinkedIn, WAYN, Unik and so on endlessly. Managing these are a full time occupation!

Post a comment

(If you haven't left a comment here before, you may need to be approved by the site owner before your comment will appear. Until then, it won't appear on the entry. Thanks for waiting.)

Identity

Comments

© Rajesh Lalwani 2006 -2009. All rights reserved. Read our Terms of Use